Ok! Wow been awhile! just to catch you up I broke up with the insensitive bastard who had relationship and commitment issues as well as truth issues and he was about as phased by it as I was :P I then went out with some friends of a friend and wound up being hit on by a guy I used to fancy, now we have been texting awhile but I just don't know what I think of him. I mean he seems genuine yet who knows these days. Then add on top of this the guy I work with who I have amazing chemistry with yet I just don't know, I mean it's never a good idea to get involved with someone you work with, been there done that and got the t-shirt. Though, in saying that if it happened I wouldn't exactly say no but then what do I do? Do I wait around and see IF something will happen with this guy and IF it does then what? Work mixing with personal life never ends well in any experiences I know of; and what about this friend of a friend? Do I take a chance and go for it? Do I wait around and see what happens and just go with the flow? Or should I weigh up the options, especially as I know for a fact that he is on the rebound and we are two very different people most of the time. Don't get me wrong we get on well and have a laugh but can two people who are as different as us work if it was given the chance? To me it needs further insight and thought.
How to choose between two men. . .
It is the situation that every women dreams of having, yet in reality it is possibly one of the hardest decisions a girl will have to make in relation to her love life. What do you do if you happen to find yourself in such a predicament? Most gossip sites and magazines would say to sit down and think long and hard about it, which I guess is right but how long is too long? Men wont wait around forever especially when they get the feeling that you are not fully invested in them. There is only so long someone will wait for a chance. Yes, it is not a decision that you can decide well if it doesn't work out with Mr A then I can always fall back on Mr B. To make the decision you have to figure out which one you would rather spend time with, having fun with, the one who treats you right and makes you feel good about yourself. If both of them do that, well I can just say good luck to you and just follow your instincts. Listen to your gut and hey if it's wrong it's wrong but what is meant to happen will happen.
